#182 - Two simple questions changed everything for Bernard "Chalky" White. Growing up under the shadow of an abusive father who regularly beat both him and his mother, Chalky developed a survival mechanism that unfortunately led him to abandon his education completely by age 13. With zero qualifications at 16, he joined the police cadets and eventually became a London "Bobby," though his heart was never truly in law enforcement.

During his nine-year police career, Chalky witnessed unspeakable horrors, including a gruesome murder of a child and two near-death experiences where fellow officers failed to intervene. But fate intervened in late 1973 when a friend casually invited him skiing. Watching instructors and seasonal workers enjoying mountain life in Andora sparked something profound within him.

That's when Chalky stumbled upon two transformative questions that would guide his decisions forevermore: "What if I don't?" followed by "What if I do?" The emotional shift between considering negative consequences and positive possibilities gave him the courage to resign from the police force and pursue a completely different life.

The path wasn't straightforward. Chalky faced brutal rejection, including being told he would "never be a ski instructor" and later that his "wrong body shape" (bowed legs) made certification impossible. To fund his dreams, he sold encyclopedias door-to-door in Germany, managed a discotheque in Morocco, and took whatever jobs kept his skiing ambitions alive.

His persistence paid off. After failing multiple British certification attempts, he traveled to New Zealand where an instructor showed him how to adapt his technique to his physique. He passed on his first try and has spent decades teaching skiing, authoring the successful "Seven Secrets of Skiing" and recently publishing his memoir "Keep Chewing the Granite: How Two Questions Can Change Your Life."

Chalky's story demonstrates how asking yourself the right questions can completely transform your perspective and ultimately your life. What decisions might change for you if you asked yourself "What if I don't?" followed by "What if I do?" Try this simple but powerful technique today and see where it leads you.

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